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Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Small Things Matter

There are times that in a relationship, you get a little too comfortable with each other that you tend to neglect things that matter.In some ways, more or less, it's true. How we stand in a relationship is exceptionally relevant in making it actually work. 






I'm not sure with how men think, but for women, I know that even the smallest act matters. 
The feeling of making you feel important by your partner is by far the happiest feeling in the world and in contrast to that, the slightest feeling of being neglected crushes almost everything into pieces. 


The funny thing is, most men are clueless about this. Instead of actually grasping the fact that they've hurt somebody, they tend to forcefully push their pointless argument that they did nothing wrong. Thus, making their partners feel more like an idiot by having to explain bit by bit on why they were acting like such a crybaby.


From what I've studied before, NEGLIGENCE  is a failure to exercise the care that a reasonably prudent person would exercise in like circumstances.It is also stated that it involves harm caused by carelessness. 
Ha! So being so careless is the root of negligence. Careless because you are too settled in your relationship that you think that nothing could ever go wrong. Not even by intentional or unintentional forgetting to do the small things that you don't think matters. The thing is, they do. They do matter big time that not even the word "sorry" can make up for it. 


From wikipedia, Through civil litigation, if an injured person proves that another person acted negligently to cause his injury, he can recover damages to compensate for his harm.
Compensate huh? Sometimes, it's just funny how some people act clueless about things like this. Not even exerting efforts to COMPENSATE for the damage that they did. They just let time pass, and hopefully they get to be forgiven. 


STFU! An excerpt from the movie Monster In Law: 

I just want a sweet guy, you know a guy who's strong but still opens the door once in a while. Who notices things and you know, maybe makes a difference. 

Unfortunately, these kind of guys either exists only in movies or in reality, an endangered specie or simply extinct.